Friday, December 17, 2010

My anger strategy

When I was younger, say some 8 years back.... I had two main ways of showing my anger

1) Run inside, bang the door and lock it.....
2) Skip lunch(I stopped using this technique coz no one seemed to be bothered)

It mostly went in favour of method 1.....I would come out after I have chilled down(which ranged from 30min to 2 hrs)..Even in this case, none seemed to be bothered but unlike in the latter case where i had to miss something nice at times, here i could have the nice ones....Ofcourse when the dishes werent capable of drawing my interest, then former method would be given greater importance....:-)

Forward 8 years.... Over 8 years, I have learnt to control my anger and be more friendly towards patience...However I do get angry at times...But then the options have changed... Now I just have a single method. And guess what...it works perfectly and is much more efficient:-)... Its really simple...Now, whenever I get angry, I just walk to the pc...go to www.facebook.com.......type username as prav01von19@gmail.com ... and password as *********(thought i would tell you...no way)... and just do a status update.... :-) obviously i would get comments...and yes...my anger....my anger would vanish in minutes:)All hail facebook:)

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Journeys and reflections

I am a person who loves travelling and going to new places....!.... Ofcourse the options of travelling from point A to point B are many....There could be absence of a particular mode in a particular place....but in general,,there are the slow modes(cycles,bikes), medium modes(buses and cars and trains and ships) and the fast (planes, rockets)......
Considering my main objective is to reach a particular destination, I really shouldnt be partial over the mode of tranport...But the truth is..i am....i love travelling by trains....Given a choice I prefer that..... I cannot lock an exact reason....But i guess its coz it gives me time to reflect upon various issues...and the scenary outside(the less occupied areas) plus the joblessness intensifies the reflection... One can always argue reflections can be made anytime...why a train journey alone??.... but the slow modes include you riding and if u reflect, u might find urself surrounded by people..ie, if you are lucky:-)...and as for buses,flights,cars,etc....journey is too tiring or the package includes lot of distractions...I guess ships would be a good alternative but then i havent got a chance yet....:-(....So we are back to trains...!!!!!!which i love travelling by.....I have been quite lucky to have quite some journeys till now....and i hope that they continue,......Its said one shouldnt end anything without thanking the people behind the scenes.....so...long live the indian railways and lalu who encouraged us to use the railways....;-)